Hi friends! I've missed writing here. I'm sorry I was gone for a few weeks. My computer crashed and then my daughter had my second grandchild- a little boy born 2/13/14. If you would like to see a picture of him (he is adorable!) head over to the Teen Mom 365 facebook page.
Anyways, it is still February so we are going to continue to talk about love. This week we will focus on our relationship with guys. If you are a teen mom, then it goes without saying that you've had sex. That's ok. I'm not going to tell you that sex is bad or dirty or shameful.
God created sex for two primary reasons- to procreate (the fancy word for having babies) and for fun. Yes, you read that right. God created sex for fun.
However, God also designed sex to be for a monogamous marriage relationship, which we will talk about more tomorrow. Today I wanted to share a few scriptures to give you a glimpse of God's heart on the subject of sex and relationships.
I Corinthians 6:15-20
There's more to sex than skin on skin. Sex is as much spiritual mystery as physical fact. As written in Scripture, "the two become one". Since we want to become spiritually one with the Master, we must not pursue the kind of sex that avoids commitment and intimacy, leaving us more lonely than ever--the kind of sex that can never "become one". There is a sense in which sexual sins are different from all others. In sexual sin we violate the sacredness of our bodies, these bodies that were made for God-given and God-modeled love, for becoming one with another. Or didn't you realize that your body is a sacred place, the place of the Holy Spirit? Don't you see that you can't live however you please, squandering what God paid such a high price for? the physical part of you is not some piece of property belonging to the spiritual part of you. God owns the whole works. So let people see God in and through your body.
Then God blessed them and said "Be fruitful and multiply. Fill the earth and govern it.
Genesis 2: 18, 24-25
Then the Lord God said, "It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him"...This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. Now the man and his wife were both naked, but they felt no shame.
Live happily with the woman you love through all the meaningless days of life that God has given you under the sun. The wife God gives you is your reward for all your earthly toil.